Gender Poll

[brucie]

For further context of site demographics as requested here

 

[Rolfe]

Gender identity is a load of self-indulgent performative bollocks. People come in male and female, and these are not "identities", they are sexes.

 

[Archev]

Gender identity is a load of self-indulgent performative bollocks. People come in male and female, and these are not "identities", they are sexes.

I, me, it agrees

 

[brucie]

Gender identity is a load of self-indulgent performative bollocks. People come in male and female, and these are not "identities", they are sexes.

In no way was this intended to cause offence to anyone, nor was it intended to start a contentious debate that has no place on this forum so please don't twist it into one. Thanks

I'm quite shocked that a Mod should be the person to do so tbh

 

[Gomev]

Gender identity is a load of self-indulgent performative bollocks. People come in male and female, and these are not "identities", they are sexes.

I, me, it agrees

Thirded

 

[Rolfe]

In no way was this intended to cause offence to anyone, nor was it intended to start a contentious debate that has no place on this forum so please don't twist it into one. Thanks

I'm afraid it has done that, whether you intended it to or not. A simple poll asking if members are male or female would have been perfectly adequate.

I for one will never participate in any questionnaire that implies that being male or female is an "identity" which people can choose to adopt, and as for "non-binary", God give me strength.

This is a hill I will absolutely die on.

ETA, having seen the edit. I am not posting as a mod, but as a woman who has had absolutely enough and to spare of men who think they can appropriate womanhood and put it on as a costume. I had hoped this was a place I could escape from all that.

 

[brucie]

I'm afraid it has done that, whether you intended it to or not. A simple poll asking if members are male or female would have been perfectly adequate.

I for one will never participate in any questionnaire that implies that being male or female is an "identity" which people can choose to adopt, and as for "non-binary", God give me strength.

This is a hill I will absolutely die on.

Then just don't participate, it's that simple.

 

[emmrecs]

Then just don't participate, it's that simple.

I agree with @Rolfe and others and, as you suggest, will not be participating.

So, how "valid" will your results be?

 

[Rolfe]

Then just don't participate, it's that simple.

It's not that simple. But I have a rehearsal and concert today, so I'll leave you to it.

 

[brucie]

Then I guess it's up to a mod to delete or lock this thread. It doesn't seem like I can do so. Sad state of affairs indeed but there we go.

 

[OriginalBigAl]

????? does it matter, is it relevant? In a ultra left or right wing society, it might, but here we are all MG owners (mainly) and equal in the eyes of the electron.

 

[brucie]

????? does it matter, is it relevant? In a ultra left or right wing society, it might, but here we are all MG owners (mainly) and equal in the eyes of the electron.

It was purely in response to decrep in another thread. That's all.

 

[Gomev]

Perhaps the third option could read 'Prefer not to say'

 

[brucie]

Perhaps the third option could read 'Prefer not to say'

I think best a mod that has yet to pass judgement just delete it tbh. Just as some seem to be offended by it I am offended by their response. Speaking as someone with two transgender relatives whose lives have been transformed by acceptance that I presume would never happen here that is my preference. I'm not going to justify my action any further as it will clearly fall on tone deaf ears.

Mods please lock.

 

[Archev]

????? does it matter, is it relevant? In a ultra left or right wing society, it might, but here we are all MG owners (mainly) and equal in the eyes of the electron.

Oh heck I’ve always suspected I’m weird I loved my MGs and my Citroen but lately I’m partial to displaying my bus pass but I’ve been trying to keep that to myself (unsuccessfully)

 

[Rolfe]

Perhaps the third option could read 'Prefer not to say'

Oh God, let's not go there. I've had to use that once or twice to get past ultra-woke gatekeeping questionnaires to access goods or services. (Because I will certainly not, ever, tick a box labelled "female, including trans women", and I'm talking to you, Sabhal Mòr Ostaig.)

But here, people can simply not answer if they "prefer not to say". Or even lie. No way to check if people are lying, that's on them.

 

[Rolfe]

????? does it matter, is it relevant? In a ultra left or right wing society, it might, but here we are all MG owners (mainly) and equal in the eyes of the electron.

The basic question of which sex you are could be quite interesting. We tend to assume that most people interested in a car forum are male, and that's probably true, but there are also probably a lot more women here than one might assume. One of our most expert electrical experts is a woman.

When I was asked to be a mod, Stuart didn't realise I was a woman, and when he did, he started promising to cease addressing the mod team as "lads" and "chaps". I said I didn't mind in the slightest, but he said it wouldn't feel right to him.

So these are interesting attitudes, and an actual breakdown of the sex of the active members might be genuinely interesting.

 

[Rolfe]

I think best a mod that has yet to pass judgement just delete it tbh. Just as some seem to be offended by it I am offended by their response. Speaking as someone with two transgender relatives whose lives have been transformed by acceptance that I presume would never happen here that is my preference. I'm not going to justify my action any further as it will clearly fall on tone deaf ears.

Mods please lock.

I would do it, but since it seems you'd rather it was someone other than me, I'll leave it.