I think you are worrying too much about the battery - and you have the longer lived LFP version anyway.
In practice it is hard to go wrong, so long as you:
- Charge the LFP SR weekly to 100% on an AC charger, to balance it. You can charge to 100% more often than this including on Rapid CCS chargers, that won't harm it.
- Charge the NMC LR monthly to 100% on an AC charger, to balance it. 100% range charges more often than this are fine (including on Rapid CCS chargers) so long as you don't leave the car at 100% for a long period of time.
- Normally charge the NMC LR to 80% for everyday use.
Really, both these battery technologies will last longer than the rest of the car and longer than an ICE engine would, so no need to worry.
The only way people really go wrong is not to follow the above advice - eg never doing balancing charges and/or only using fast chargers.