Be careful what you wish for, I own two forums over this side of the globe and sometimes there is no good way to handle a situation, so you are forced to take what you think would be the best option ......
On one of the forum, we have a section in the back room to put potentially incitive posts, then the moderator team put forward their thoughts on how to deal with it, but we leave a book mark to say that the post is under review ..... it doubles as a warning that there are lines that can be crossed and the team will take action .... generally, if the post is simply a heated brain burst, we allow the author to rewrite it and mention something about a rethink after they cooled down ..... if it's bad, the post stays in the back room folder and the author gets a warning percentage that appears on their avatar section, similar to the reaction score and that stays there for 3 mths ......we lose a few members as a result, but not everyone can get along with everyone else ......
T1 Terry