So, I did a proof of concept this morning to see if a relay could remote switch the CP (Communication Pilot) signal.
I took the back off my variable current granny charger, and all the leads were conveniently labelled, and the CP lead was bolted to the PCB rather than soldered, which made it easy.
I connected some test leads from the output of the relay to the CP lead and the CP terminal on the PCB. I then used a variable voltage power supply to apply 5 volts to the input of the relay..
I connected the charger to the car and switched it on . . . no blue lights at the charge port (that's because there was no pilot signal). I switched on my power supply and put 5 volts on the trigger. Blue lights came on, relays clicked and the car started charging. Took the 5 volts off the trigger, relays clicked and the lights went from green to blue. Result!
Now I know it will work, I will put together a light sensitive switch to apply the 5 volt trigger for when the sun comes out. I'll post the project in a new thread for any hobbyists out there who want to make their own.