I believe the heated seats run from the 12v battery, so shouldn’t have any effect on the range.
Everything else depends entirely on the outside temperature, length of drive, opportunities for regen etc., not just how heavy your right foot is and whether you had cranked up the heater. The temperature can vary hugely from a frosty morning to a warm and sunny afternoon, so it’s not surprising that some people are getting better miles to kWh than others, even on the same day.
I don’t suppose anyone compared their fuel usage in ICE vehicles.