Ive connected the car charger plug to a wind up extension connected to my house
If it's the wind up type that I have a picture of in my head, then hell no !.
It should NOT be coiled up regardless and please ensure that the extension lead is suitability rated to carry that heavy load for long periods of time.
Extension leads usage is okay ....... but I would prefer to limit there use TBH.
I do see them more as a short term option purely myself.
Check the lead is three core and has a cross section value of NO less than 1.5mm.
If it's 2.0mm that's fine, but please no lower than 1.5mm ( it will be printed on the outer casing of the flex ).
After the Granny has been in use for a couple of hours, the plug top will be warm to the touch.
You will find it warmer at LIVE conductor of the three pin plug.
This is to be expected, if its MAD hot then that is not right, or safe.
Once a week, remove the three pin plug from the socket outlet and if it tight to remove and there is any signs of brown scorch marks on the outlet, then clearly it is getting too hot and needs addressing ASAP.
Ideally you would have a stand alone outlet installed on a dedicated circuit supplied from your C.U.
When charging an EV from home, if it's a Granny or a Wall Box, the condition of the wiring and the installation ( in the case of a wall box ) has to be 100% or excessive heat will be generated as a result.
Because the Granny lead has a three pin plug fitted, many people regard this as any other appliance they have and treat it accordingly.
I am willing to bet there is very little other electrical appliances that are rated as the same and are intended to be pulling this type of load for hours on end.
This is not your average lawn mower or even a microwave oven you are plugging in here.
There is a clue provided, when you study the thickness of the lead fitted on the Granny unit.