I see where you're coming from now, thanks for the explanation.
I think there is something wrong with your car. I have the SR, which has an overall WLTP advertised range of 218 miles, that's more than 60 miles less than your car, and I would be disappointed if I was seeing or getting less than 100 miles from a full charge, even in winter weather in Scotland. You're in Hampshire (sorry, you're right, I was confusing it with Romney!), which still shouldn't be as adverse as 800 feet up in the Pentland Hills where I am!
The worst GOM estimate I have ever seen has been 145 miles. The charge I'm doing right now might come in a bit lower, as I was doing a series of 3-mile journeys in cold weather with a lot of pre-heating and the heater on at max. Then yesterday I deliberately drove it to waste power as I wanted to get it below 10% to do its periodic long charge. However, right now it's sitting at 85% and telling me I have 124 miles. In an SR that has been driven about as uneconomically as it can be driven.
ETA: In fact, once the charge was finished and iSmart deigned to work, again I got 145 miles range for 100% charge. I would expect that to increase a bit now though, because we're not seeing freezing temperatures at the moment.
So if we ignore the ranges MG quotes for your car and home in on the fact that you're seeing a range of less than 100 miles estimated for a full charge on an LR, something is wrong. It's way too early for problems to have arisen in relation to not doing balancing charges or long charges (it's not even time for you to be thinking about a long charge anyway) so I feel there is a fault somewhere.
Most people hate the lane control, and there has been a fault with (at least some) Trophies where it would come back on after being turned off when the central screen changed between light and dark mode. However this fault has not been reported on the SE (apart from by Joanne the Hairdresser, but I never understood what she was saying about it). I always turn it off, and I saw it come back on only once, after about a mile, and I question whether I'd turned it off properly in the first place. I've done over 6,000 miles and it never bothers me because I turn it off and it stays off. So again I think there is a fault with your car there.
Your charging door issue also sounds like a fault. Mine has never been a problem and the only problems I've heard about from others have mainly involved ice causing it to get stuck.
I don't think having to buy your own type 2 cable is a huge issue. If you charge at home and only use DC chargers when out on long journeys, you're not going to need one. If you do, get one off Amazon. In my MG4 manual the granny charger is described as an "emergency charger". I don't think it is recommended for constant routine use, although that's exactly what I'm doing, but I think most home chargers come with a tethered cable.
I find the steering wheel buttons fine, but they took a while to get used to. I try to avoid having to touch the central screen at all while I'm driving, and usually succeed. Audio controls, HVAC controls and ACC control all work well from the steering wheel. I agree that if you want to change driving mode or regen mode you have to touch the screen and that could be an issue, but I understand from those who have had the R33 software update that these options have been added to the steering wheel buttons on that revision. Mainly, though, I would advise setting it up how you want it for your journey at the start, and keeping your fingers off the screen while driving.
As regards the twitchy back end. Is this an issue that could be resolved with different tyres? Also, the fact that this only happened to me once (in the factory-fitted tyres) and I do have a fairly active right foot shall we say, makes me wonder if your driving style is less economical than you think.
Nevertheless the winter range you are quoting is well out of line, and needs investigating. You might like to talk to
@QLeo who has had an SE SR for probably eight months, and lives in the far north of Scotland, to see what sort of range he's seeing this weather. I haven't heard him report anything like what you're seeing.