Okay, so this one has tested me and I have tested it over the past couple of weeks at least. The long and short for me is:
If you car is left connected to a charger, but not charging, the HV battery is disconnected. That message displays on screen. Hence, your 12v will not be topped up by the HV battery. Leave the car like that for a few days and use the app, lock, unlock etc, and the 12v battery will deplete.
To keep the 12v topped up, you need the car unplugged from the charger, or charge the car.